By Eric Noel Roman

Self-preservation is a human characteristic. As a species we are programmed to make sure that things are good and safe for ourselves. I am not against self-sustainability. Let’s face it, to be happy and self-fulfilled we must be selfish. Think of ourselves before we put others ahead of us, and rely on our own will to succeed. This style of thinking leads to confidence and trust in your own character. However, once you are nearing a level of happiness the surrounding world is equally affected.

As you improve, it is very important to not become self-centered. As the funk starts to wear away, it is important to remember that actions have effects. Thinking about how to be better and happier should not only be about oneself. Extend your view to your surrounding areas, like your neighbors and co-workers. You never know what rewards can come from helping others along the way.

Equally, always thinking about “now” does not allow you to think about the consequences of your choices. Thinking about the greater good of your surroundings is just as important as self fulfilment. In addition to limiting damage along the way, helping your surroundings grow indirectly, allows you to become a better person and you will reap the benefits of the improvements of others.

As you improve your personal world, and begin to bring up your surroundings, many things can happen. Neighbors might be more receptive to maintaining their areas. Neighborhoods might begin community gatherings. Property values might rise. All because you remembered to think about your surroundings as you improve yourself.